First of all, abt the December thing dun worry abt it. becoz in THE WORD OF GOD! not by man!!! it says Jesus doesn't even noe when he is suppose to come down so dun believe all the nonsense they predict. If Jesus who is so perfect doesnt even noe what makes u think God will tell sinners like us. SO THINK. Trust Him too. anyway regarding Joy's post, it is not abt the question of who is on whose side. becoz one person will always tell another story and vice versa. so obviously this is between us alone. and i think at the end of the day We both had faults and rights in this. whatever real truth u are telling or maybe i am telling but u claim its a lie. Its our own actions.Let God decide. My fault was that maybe i was too harsh and stuff but ur fault is abt breaking the promise that u gave not only to me but ur dear friends. Its true, we should think of our future... plan it...It is good to fear God's coming. It is good to use ur past to change for the better but never live in both except the present becoz that was God says. And the fact we worry is actually a sin. Joy, i think we better talk abt the so called real truth u talking abt becoz if u dun tell me i think both of us were juz keep continuing to have fights and stuff. And i dun think a case is closed until u really forgive the person. I have forgiven how abt you? and in case u think have forgiven me then i dont think so becoz the fact u're still pissed means u haven't TRULY forgiven me. Secondly, what Joy says abt our unity thing is true. But it is gonna take a long time. its not smth overnight but a long process especially ur spiritual maturity. we all have to be the same level. So pls dun expect it to be immediate and get irritated and stuff. And thirdly in order to acheive this unity, its not only ask who will push you but you yourself. If u dun really telll ur problems, do u think its time U SLOWLY step out of ur comfort zone? or u wanna stay the same and later say we are not united when u urself dun do ur part.