ok i thionk firstly splitting is kinda retarded but anyway the change part we are not asking u to change ur personality nobody said that. did i say eh joy stop ur bimbo shit la its damn irritating? no right i'm accepting her for who she is coz every body is different. secondly my apologies... during youth ablaze God told me yes maybe sometimes the girls maybe like that la but u also have ur fault. my fault was i chose not to see the hope u all actualyl did give. instead, i had a mindset u won't change thats why things went kinda wrong. sorry for that.. i hope u all will forgive me...and i speak on behalf of josh too(i think hehe coz thats what he felt) we juz hope u all will maybe treat us juz A LITTLE better which is already happening even though it is slow. hahaha anyway case settled. can we not discuss anymore abt this.? unless u got smth to say which is not part of what me or the rest said. OH and yesterday when i was being prayed for my friend said sometimes in ur anger and depression u fall into temptations. and it is true>< becoz when i'm depressed somehow i will juz forget everything like i already think i'm gonna go to hell so i do things and say words which might hurt. for anger its the words one la but also temptations. so yea. sorry for those times i said harsh words. and to be honest i did mean it. its juz i phrased it badly that it hurts u all instead of telling u the truth and help u all to grow for the better. we both sides change alone with one another lor. like for us guys, we will try to understand u all more better...that as girls u all need ur space and whatever. but u all change also by maybe dun leave us out too much yea.. and as we try to understand you help us to understand you also lor:) thanks i love u all HAHA OH MAN I'M HIGH and u all noewhy -.-