hmm i thought i should share this... sometimes u noe ppl say forgive and forget... it does not really mean that way.. i mean the forgive part yes lah. its the forgetting part. you see ah its like lets say i did smth wrong to one of you. you can't juz simply drive it out of ur memory especially if its a bad one isn't it. and wouldn't it be better if u remember it but move on.. and learn.. and even perhaps teach other ppl that migth be going through the same thing. and u noe sometimes u think u have forgotten but the memory is sub consciously still in ur head. if i were to say smth to trigger it u would have to go through all the trouble trying to forget. and if u were to try to forget whats the point of having a memory to remember things? God has given you everything for a reason isn't it? even ur memory. when you say forgive and forget it means to let go. dun take it to heart of what the person has done to you any longer. It is to let go and not dwell on it any longer and live in your past. When you die and meet God, God is not going to say oh i see that u have repented but i have forgotten what u have done. He is going to say," because you have repented i have forgiven you of whatever sins you have done". Ok i know sometiems u get bored of hearing verses and stuff so i thought maybe get smth from a movie.. although its still christian hehe. if u dun believe me.. watch narnia.. the first one.. when aslan got edmund back he said to the siblings..there's no need to talk to edmund of what is past. Which doesn't mean forget but means dun dwell on it :)