but i think i'm also saying this to you to tell others because recently so many ppl say this is judging and that is judging tilll the point that almost everything is judging. 

and certain times when u say that i feel its right. but there other times i feel in my spirit that its also a bit akward and wrong. 

so i asked God what is it thats truly judging. 

and the verse is " stay away from bad company because it corrupts good character"

i was like how in the world is that related. 

then i realize.. in order to stay away from bad company... u need to know for urself and see for urself what is bad company. 

and if u need to know that guys isn't that judging? 

isn't that verse something wrong already? 

well if its written there obviously it means thats not judging. 

no offence lah... but how i see it now its like for eg something happens most ppl not just u guys will say... how u know that guy is bad company dun judge ppl lah. and how u know ur character is good who are u to say that. 

but u see ah... i think judging is not just assuming abt someone. yes it is.

But its also a combination of both assuming and critisism. 

like for e.g my friend owe me money... he tell me he got prob at home.

then i assume and start saying he is a liar before i even ask around or find out anything. now i think thats judging. 

so be careful of how you guys think also k :)